How to Make a Man Cum Quickly

Men are visual beings who get excited by what they see. So if you tease him a little bit as you undress, he will a have boner by the time your last garment falls off.

Making him orgasm is even easier but you know how it is, men don’t want to cum quick. They will try to hold it in for longer if they can.

There are also men can go for more than 30 minutes without ejaculating. Which might be a problem to some women.

The female body requires lubrication and if it dries up, she starts feeling sore. The next step will either be to use the best lube for sex or try to make the man cum as fast as she can. But at times, even the best lube might not help. I guess that’s why you’re here: looking for the best ways to make a man cum quickly. We don’t dissapoint.

1. Start by understanding his kinks and fetishes

Learn what turns him on and triggers powerful orgasms. It is easy to make a man cum if you know what turns him on.

Always remember that not all guys have the same fetishes; some are turned on by revealing clothes, others love watching porn while others love to listen to moans.

Incorporate his fetishes into your sex life and you will realize that they are very useful when trying make your man orgasm quick.

Fetish are not easy to talk about, so don’t pressure him let him tell you at his own pace. Have an open mind and try not to be judgmental.

Talk to him and try to understand what makes him tick. Don’t judge him and if you are not comfortable fulfilling his fetish, just let it go.

2. Stroke his Ego

How to Make a Man Cum Quickly

Foreplay always does the trick.

For men, sex is more than just satisfying his sexual needs it also involves satisfying his ego. While stroking his penis remember to ‘stroke’ his ego too.

Show him that you are more than attracted to him and that his presence alone turns you on. This simple gestures will go a long way in stroking his ego.

How you respond to his touch, the way you moan and your involvement during sex sends subconscious signals to your man that you are/not interested in him or what he is doing.

To him, it is like you are saying that you don’t think highly of him. Don’t get me wrong, some men are lousy when it comes to sex but if there if you can help him become better then go ahead and do it.

If you want him to cum quick, then you will have to respond to his touch, moan and talk dirty. Learn his favorite sex techniques and give it to him the way he likes it. You are guaranteed to have him coming back for more.

3. Oral Sex

How to Make a Man Cum Quickly

Oral sex is one of the most satisfying ways to make a man cum quick. that’s if you know how to do it right. Good oral sex requires the right technique and knowing how to press the right buttons.

Some love it sloppy while other prefer having their balls stroked in the process. If you do it right, you’ll have your man crying because it feels so good.

Oral sex tips:

  • Saliva- since you are giving him head it is logical that you will use a natural lubricant like saliva. Ask him whether he likes it sloppy or not. Apply a lot of saliva on his penis and suck it while you give him a hand job. Use your hands to stroke his shaft and your mouth to focus on the head of his penis. Flick your tongue on his frenulum, move your tongue in circles around his glans and deep throat him. I don’t think there is any man who can resist such exquisite oral skills. You will have him cumming in no time.
  • Rhythm- let there be coordination between your mouth and your hands. Use your hands to do half the work and your mouth to do the rest. You can jerk him off while sucking him. A penis has three erogenous zones; the shaft, the glans and the frenulum. Work on these three areas and he will come quickly. Also, don’t forget to suck his balls, men love it.

4. Role playing

How to Make a Man Cum Quickly

The idea of having sex with your favorite TV character can be a huge turn on or even submitting to your partner. You see, there are men who prefer women who take control.

You can start by wearing sex costumes, lingerie or latex. For others, pain is a pleasure- the fifty shades kind of kinky.

Role-playing involves creating a new persona and sticking to the persona during the sexual encounter. If you do it right and pick a persona he likes, you are likely to have him close to the edge in no time.

5. Ass play

Most men will rarely agree to this, it doesn’t feel right for most. Therefore, talk to him to make sure he is okay with you playing with his ass.

Spank his ass, grab it and if he is adventurous try playing with his butthole. The most explosive orgasm a man can experience is by pressing the right buttons which are located in his anus

Playing with his butthole will make him cum quicker especially if you combine ass play with sloppy head.

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6. Give it to him tight

Men love tight pussy, the tight muscles make it hard for them to hold their nut. A man will cum in minutes if your pussy is tight.

It’s alright if your vagina is not as tight as it used to be before you gave birth. Thanks to the continued advancement in medicine, there are ways you can regain your ‘tightness’ without surgery.

You can try Kegel exercises or apply V-Tight Gel– a gel that improves and restores the elasticity of your vagina. For best results, vagina tightening gels are best applied regularly since the results are not permanent.

However, if you combine the gel with Kegel exercises the results will last longer and the best part is that the gel has no side effects.

7. Balls, Balls and more balls

These family jewels are often overlooked during foreplay or oral sex. Balls are also sensitive and if you want to make him cum quick then you might want to play with his balls while giving him head.

Also, suck them a little bit and if possible juggle them in your mouth.

Remember to be gentle, it could turn ugly if you accidentally bite his balls.

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