If there is something that really bugs most men, it’s cumming too quick.
You’ve probably experienced a situation like this where you’ve brought home a fine looking woman and you are sure you will tap this all night.
You get into your apartment horny as shit, you don’t even bother to put on a condom, bend her over on the kitchen counter and start giving it to her.
One minute into the job and you already feel like you are about to bust a nut. You try to hold it in for longer but less than 20 seconds later your load comes knocking at the door. And bam! You spray it all over her.
She turns back, looks at you and yells, “Seriously? Two minutes is all you got?” She pulls up her dress and slips away disgruntled.
- 1 Do You Bust a Nut SO Fast?
- 2 Here’s What You Can Do Not to Nut So Fast
Do You Bust a Nut SO Fast?
Men are not born great lovers, they are made… and to be a great lover, you must be able to last longer in bed!
Yes, its an old, well-worn quote, but it is true. To be a great lover you need stamina and staying power in the sack.
Not only to please a woman but to extend and maximize on your own pleasure!
Having the ability to last longer in bed and control ejaculation leads to intense sex – women take longer than men to get fully aroused and a great lover must realize this if he is to reach his full sexual potential.
Ask any woman what they consider the biggest let down in bed and they are likely to say, “It was all over before I was even aroused”. Especially the younger woman with younger men! Premature ejaculation is more common with single young men.
This makes sense, younger men are hornier, have higher testosterone levels than older men, and focus highly on intercourse vs lovemaking. Young single men tend to go longer between sexual encounters as well, and this is a major part of premature, or quick ejaculation.
Unfortunately, Premature ejaculation is a condition that affects more than 30% of men and the remaining 70% have experienced it at least once. It can be caused by various factors such as stress, anxiety, high blood pressure or diabetes.
Here’s What You Can Do Not to Nut So Fast
Everyone has a way of coping with different challenges and premature ejaculation is no different.
There are a lot of home-made remedies that range from masturbation before sex, using thicker condoms and frequent sex. If you are looking for a quick fix, try stamina condoms such as Durex Performax which have a special lube that numbs your penis.
Otherwise, keep reading to discover how you can permanently stop busting a nut too fast.
1. Use the Stamina Training Unit
One of the best ways to learn to control ejaculation is with regular sex, but that is not an option for many men. So, in reality, it makes sense to have a product that is so realistic, and more stimulating than the real thing, that men will have the opportunity to learn to control ejaculation. Enter the Fleshlight Training Unit!
Busting a nut too fast is embarrassing and can become an emotional problem for some men. Some men turn to delay creams, cock rings or other devices, but really, the solution is fairly straight forward – more frequent sex and learn to control ejaculation during sex.
If you have a steady understanding sexual partner, focus on controlling ejaculation for a while instead of sexual gratification (for yourself that is). If you feel you may cum, stop, and ask her to stop, then when you feel you can go again – keep going, continue doing this and it should make a difference (over time) – the Fleshlight STU works using similar techniques.
The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is the first Fleshlight product designed not only for pleasure but to help men control premature ejaculation. This means you can work while you play.
Using the STU will not only give you an unbelievable orgasm but also help you last longer in bed. The inside texture of the STU is filled with soft nodules to replicate the intense feeling of being with a woman. If you can last 10 minutes in the Fleshlight after training, then you can last 20 minutes in bed with a woman.
Fleshlights are the number one selling male sex toy in the world. If you’re already going to be masturbating, why not also be training yourself to last longer in bed.
2. Use PC Muscles to Last Longer
You can control the intensity and frequency of your orgasms by flexing your PC muscle.
This means you can stop your ejaculation by working on your pc muscle and learning how to control it. The best way to do this is by using Kegel exercises.
Premature ejaculation is no fun, but don’t despair – there are solutions out there to be found. If you haven’t already heard of them, allow us to introduce you the number one exercise for increasing control of the sexual organs – known as Kegel exercises.
A set of exercises, known as Kegel exercises, were invented many decades ago for the strengthening of some of the primary muscles involved in the sexual organs of both men and women. They have not seen the widespread circulation they should have, as they offer men with ejaculation issues a way to help gain control of their orgasms! Here we present some basic advice to men on using Kegel exercises to achieve a more satisfying sexual performance.
What are Kegels?
First, you need to be familiar with the muscles that make up the pubococcygeus muscle. The pubococcygeus (PC) is like a hammock of muscle that holds the pelvic organs in place.
Kegel exercises are a way to work out the muscles of the pelvic floor and were named after Dr. Arnold Kegel who discovered, studied and proved their effectiveness. They were originally designed to increase control of urination in women after childbirth but worked as well for tightening the muscles of the vagina itself.
Yes, the exercises were invented for women, but it turns out the sexual benefits work well for men also – the PC muscle in men controls and supports the penis. Men who develop their PC can enjoy the benefits of having increased bladder and ejaculation control. It has also been claimed that these exercises can increase the intensity of orgasms.
Are you ready to learn how to strengthen the pelvic floor and reduce premature ejaculation?
What do I need to do?
First, you must find and isolate the PC muscle. You can easily do this while standing in the bathroom while urinating. Do not do this if you badly have to urinate! Holding back that pressure is not healthy for the PC – this is only used as a test.
The better way is to choose a time when your body hasn’t got a ton of urine to get rid of, which should reduce the pressure and make the test safe to perform. After half of your bladder has emptied, try to stop it mid-flow. If you can slow or stop it, you’ve scrunched the right muscles.
Another test for men involves making your erect penis move up and down by ‘scrunching’ the muscles of the perineum – surrounding the base of the penis and around the anus. If you can make your penis move up, even just a little, then you’ve probably tightened the PC muscles. Familiarize yourself with how the PC feels, but don’t practice holding back urination – it’s just too stressful on the body.
Now, perform this routine, which is remarkably simple (the key to success is in simple regular repetition).
In a comfortable position (this could even be sitting at your desk at work – it’s a hidden exercise), tighten your PC muscles for 4 – 6 seconds, and then relax for about the same. You’ve just completed one repletion (rep). Repeat this about 30 times, 3 times per day. This should be continued for at least a week, better if you perform it for two.
Now that you have some basic muscle tone built up, you may begin to increase the number of reps. Do this by doubling your previous number of reps, up to 60, 3 times per day using the same 4 – 6 second tighten-and-release
.If you begin to feel pain or discomfort in any way, ease back on how you tighten your PC or reduce the number or reps to a comfortable level. Increase reps when it feels comfortable again to do so. Continue this for another week.
Increase your reps again to 80 or so per set, which you will perform 3 times per day. Again, be sensitive to overstressing the muscles and ease back if you experience pain.
Increase your reps again to 100 or so per set, which you will perform 3 times per day. This will bring you to performing 300 Kegels per day, which is the basic recommendation made by the doctor in his original writings. Some say that you could continue this for the rest of your life if you wanted to, but performing it for at least several months should show measurable results.
You can also improve the effectiveness of your Kegel exercises by taking supplements that enhance and nourish the tissues of the genital area. Semenax™(www.semenax.com) is an all natural supplement containing ingredients that can increase ejaculation control by feeding and strengthening the tissues of the penis and pelvic area.
- Locate the muscle- when peeing try and stop the pee mid flow. The muscle that you used to stop the flow is the same muscle you will use to stop you from ejaculating. It is the same kind of flexing that makes your erect penis move up and down.
- Flex the PC muscle every day for 10 minutes- training the pc muscle to work to your advantage takes time and patience. Start by flexing your muscle and holding it for 5 seconds then release. Keep doing this every day for 10 minutes.
3. Behavioral Strategies
It involves pausing for a few seconds while having sex and allowing your body to cool off before you can continue.
However, this will only be effective if you know how to time it right. You’ve to understand how your body works and signs of excitement. A second too late and you will have shot your load.
You can also change the rhythm or slow down to reduce arousal to about 4/10. At this point you can resume stimulation and when you reach peak stimulation repeat the above process until you are ready to ejaculate.
4. Lots of Foreplay
Foreplay is king.
Most women love a man who knows how to work her body even without penetrating.
How will foreplay help me not to nut so fast?
Increasing the time spent on foreplay will lower your sexual excitement and it increases your chances of making your girl achieve an orgasm. That’s a win-win situation. Everybody gets what they want.
The idea of skipping foreplay and heading straight to sex elicits a lot of mental stimulation. This increases the chances of premature ejaculation.
Spend a little bit longer exploring her body and by the time you are penetrating her, your excitement will have reduced.
Plus, Women Dig Foreplay
Most women love foreplay, it turns them on, makes them dripping wet and helps them orgasm.
If she achieves an orgasm before you do, she won’t even remember if you came quick or not, as long as she got what she wanted.
Use your tongue to explore her body and get her toes curling, asking for more. By the time you are having sex, she will be close to the edge such that a few strokes will be enough to achieve an orgasm.
5. Use the Squeeze Technique
Next time you are about to bust a nut prematurely, try squeezing your penis between the glans and the shaft for 30 seconds.
Allow the sensation to subside, stimulate your penis and continue giving her world-class strokes.
This method is very effective, however, it affects your erection. A little stimulation should fix that problem. Repeat this process for about 4-5 times until you can’t hold it any longer.
This method might work but it needs both partners to agree on doing it. You can teach your partner how to execute the squeeze technique so that he/she feels involved.
It takes a lot of time and patience to master this technique. It also disrupts sexual activity which can be very frustrating even for an understanding partner.
Continue performing this technique until you are able to delay ejaculation without squeezing your penis.
6. Masturbation (Jacking off Before Sex)
Masturbation has worked for many men why shouldn’t it work for you?
Beat your meat at least 2 hours before sex. By the time you are having sex with your partner, you will not be as sensitive to stimulation.
Masturbation before sex will help reduce the build-up of ‘sexual drive’.
However, masturbation is not recommended for everyone. Some men can only ejaculate once in a day while others are unable to perform with a high sexual drive after masturbating.
It is only recommended for men who haven’t cum in a long time. Masturbation will help reduce some of that build-up and make it easy for you to perform for a little bit longer.
7. Switch Positions Before Cummin
Don’t remain in one position for too long, try changing the positions every time you are about to bust a nut.
Some sex positions are so good you can’t help but cum fast. Avoid these positions until you are sure you have ‘over delivered’ and want to cum.
Begin with a position that isn’t too sensitive for you and as you change positions you get a few seconds to catch your breath.